Finding My Place

What I didn’t learn as a kid:


Jewish history before 1900 or outside the US

The difference between the Torah and the Talmud

Adon olam

Any prayer other than the sh’ma

What I did learn as a kid:

Other people hate Jews and often try to kill them.

Country clubs and neighborhoods used to be officially restricted, and they say they’re not any more but they still are, really.

Jewish tradition requires us to behave ethically, and our history of persecution makes us allies to those who are persecuted today.

How to make gefilte fish.

The hora.

What happened since:

I found a home in Reconstructionist Judaism, in a congregation that welcomed me even though at first I had no idea what was going on during the service.

I learned to read Hebrew (phonetically and slowly, but hey).

I learned to leyn Torah.

I started wearing a kipah and tallit to services.

I stopped saying I was going to temple and started telling people I was going to shul.

I argued with my husband about kashrut while he was studying for his conversion (he was in favor of it. I was not).

I became president of our congregation. Twice.

I chanted Kol Nidre.

Judaism became part of my daily life.

I’ve written about my personal experience of Judaism on my own blog. If you check out Two Women Blogging, you’ll learn that I’m Jay, a primary care doc, adoptive mother of an eight-year-old daughter, married to a guy who goes by Sam in the blogosphere, and oh, yeah, I’m Jewish, and feminist, and leaning toward Socialist in my politics. I’m honored to be here with Brown Shoes and The Girl Detective (who has teh most awesome blogging name evah) and to have the opportunity to write about Judaism and social justice and whatever else comes to mind.

4 Responses

  1. Hurray! Glad to have you aboard! (And Kelly Link gets credit for the name – I literally scanned my bookshelf and went, “uh… that.” )

  2. B’rucha habaa! Looking forward to reading your work!
    It’s funny, lots of Jewish people I know who’ve married converts seem to clash on the issue of Kashrut.

  3. Very glad to have you on board!

  4. What has it been like to incorporate these “new” things into your Jewish life?

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: